Facing an unplanned pregnancy? We know that isn’t easy, and hearing strong opinions from others can make it even harder. Whether intentional or not, you may feel pressure from friends, your partner, or family members about what to do next. If abortion has come up in those conversations, it’s important to pause and remember: this is your decision.

At Women’s Resource Center, we’re here to walk alongside you. We’re in your corner and offer a safe place to slow down, ask questions, and explore your options without pressure or judgment. Here are a few ways to navigate outside influences as you consider what’s best for you.

Recognize the Signs of Pressure

Even if well-intentioned, sometimes the advice of friends or parents can feel overwhelming or manipulative. Pressure can sound like:

“You have to take care of this.”
“Your life will be over if you don’t get an abortion.”
“You’re too young to be a parent.”
“You can’t do this alone.”

Even if it’s coming from people you care about, it’s okay to take a step back. Their concerns might be coming from a good place, or rooted in fear or misunderstanding; either way, the decision to abort or carry to term belongs to you. You have the right to think it through without being rushed.

Know That You Have Options

It’s hard to make a confident choice when you feel cornered. That’s why learning about all your options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting—can be so empowering. Women’s Resource Center offers medically accurate information and confidential services at no cost to you.

Explore our pregnancy testing, ultrasound services, and options consultations, which are all designed to help you get the facts you need before making a final decision.

Set Healthy Boundaries

If someone is trying to decide for you, it’s okay to say, “I appreciate your concern, but I need time to think this through.”

You are allowed to have space, ask questions, and say no to pressure.

It may help to bring a trusted friend or talk to someone outside the situation who can support you as you process your options.

You Are Not Alone

We understand that your situation is unique. Whether you’re overwhelmed, confused, or afraid, we’re here to help you find peace and confidence in your next steps. No pressure. No agenda. Just support.

Schedule a no-cost appointment today to learn more about your options and talk with someone who will truly listen.

Women’s Resource Center does not perform or refer for abortions.